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The past that refuses to go away casts its sahdow very long into the present and the future. Many of us have had break ups in the past and right now desire to go forward .
Something destroys every new relationship.
What is that? Because if you find that your every new relationship is breaikng apart, you will start searching for faults in yourself. The truth may lie somewhere else.
What happens after a break up?
This dpeends largely upon the intensity of the earlier relationship. More intense the love, more hurt will result after the break up. And if your break up took place cause of unfaithfulness of your partner, it will hurt you still more. The memories of time shared will huant forever. A look at somtehing shared will bring in an avalanche of past memories and will take away your peace in a moment. The past can be very destrcutive.
It kills the person, it kills the present and the future. It can haunt one forever.
How to come out of it?
There are no smiple ways out of this.
Some of us will never come out of the grief for our lfietime. One mtehod that can help is this. Imagine a reservoir of emotions.
Imagine of many reservoirs.
In one, you have your longnig for the one you lost. In another you sotre your memories of good times. In yet another you have stored pain that you're suffering from. In this manner imagine of many reservoirs. Till they are emptied, you will not become new.
Am i right?
What is to be done? Plesae empty them out. It will take time, in some cases many years, but you can empty them if you relaly want. Live through all your longing again and empty that reservoir. Similarly cry as much as you can and fell the hurt the lost love has gievn you.
Experience everything fully, suffer from all the pain and try to empty out all this is in your heart.
This is very painufl. But if you want to live again, please do this.
Many of us hide our hurt, avoid thinking about the good moments shared together and in all possible ways try to be so busy that the feelings don't come out at all. But the feelings are very much three inside eating away our vitals. These feelings will nveer allow you to move forward in a positive way. Please remove everything from the mind and the heart by rleiving and go forward.
You may no longer guess the hurt and the pain with the same intensity, but it will be very difficult to fall in love with antoher person again with the earlier intensity. Please accept this fact.
Your beloved you left you has tkaen away something very vital from you - your faith in goodness of human beings. But after emptying out totally, you will at least be come a normal person, who can carry on life if not like a robot, than like a person without any feelings.
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